relationship tips

Jealousy can erode a relationship. At the root of jealousy is insecurity, low self-worth, lack of trust, and fear of abandonment. The irony is that because this is where your energy stems, you actually attract what you do not want. Trust is a very important element to a successful and healthy relationship. When trust is not there is eats away at the foundation of love and actually creates barriers to intimacy rather than invitation. It is not healthy for you or your relationships to hold onto jealous thoughts and suspicions.

Last week I talked to you about how fear could be interfering with you experiencing the success in love and in your relationships that you desire.  Click here to view that video.

I promised to post a tapping video on this fear for you, so here it is.  I’d love your feedback on how this helped you.

Click here to watch: Tapping Video on Fear That Sabotages Relationship Success

Last week, I wrote, Maybe It’s Time for A Change, and I would like to continue with that theme this week.   I had the immense pleasure to accompany my husband to Hanover, NH while he participated in an executive business course about innovation – a very positive way to look at change.  I thoroughly enjoyed experiencing the course through his eyes and sharing our views with each other.

As I am once again dealing with a new infection of lyme (added to my already chronic bout since 1996) I realize that spirit is calling to me to listen more fully to my deep inner truth, to awaken more vibrantly to my true passion and purpose, and to express it more authentically.  Yes, love, connection and healthy relationships are my passion.  I have felt stirrings to tap more fully into why it is my passion and desire to help women and men to heal their inner child, to clear their "junk"  so their children will not have to.  We pass so much onto our children and

I recently was struggling with how I was feeling about one of my friends, which prompted me to begin questioning within (and also out loud to my husband, who is thankfully a very patient participant in some of my self inquiry) what exactly friendship means to me.  I was also helping one of my clients to work through a family relationship that was causing her to feel distress and unsupported.

Do you end each workday feeling content…and looking forward to enjoying yourself and your partner or family in the evening?

It’s hard to do these days when:

Whether you are about to become a parent, a new parent, or been parenting for years, it’s never too late to hone your vision. Make your parenting experience real without the pain that often causes tension in households and can actually tear relationships apart.

You know those people who piss you off the most? They just drive you crazy! It might be your mother, best friend, significant other, clerk at the grocery store, or someone you just met. You know what I am talking about. You have such judgment against them. They push your buttons, trigger you to react in unattractive ways, infuriate you!

Well, here’s some good news for you! Those people, those experiences, those judgments you have can actually teach you some important lessons about yourself and free you in ways you probably cannot even imagine. Really!

Long before GRATITUDE was a concept that everyone taught, I somehow knew that when I was thankful for things it felt really good.  There was so much in my life growing up that did not feel so good, that when something did, I was so happy for the experience.

What I did not realize that by being in that space of thankfulness, and feeling the energy of gratitude I was creating a landscape by which I could experience more of what I was appreciating.

I heard Amethyst Wyldfyre speak a couple of months ago, and I knew I wanted to share her wisdom with my audience!  Since personally, I have struggled in my past relationships to be in my personal power and honestly express my truth,  I resonate with Amethyst's message and her gifts that help so many to speak openly, honestly and safely their own unique expression.