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From Dreadful Dates To Delightful Insight

Posted by: Cheri Valentine

Posted: Friday, August 3, 2012 - 12:51am

For so many women, dating is a dreaded word. One bad date after another leads them to choosing between loneliness and hopelessness. Yet how else are you supposed to meet Prince Charming? Dreaming he will charge in on his white horse and sweep you away hasn’t worked. What’s an intelligent woman to do?

Develop a different perspective on dating. Look at dating as research and development. Every date that you have actually offers you valuable insight into creating the vision of your ideal man. I know what you are thinking – just the opposite. Actually dating is teaching you clearly what you do not want in man, ever! That’s great information. The problem is that you are not seeing this as the nuggets of gold that...

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Mind Chatter = Mind Voices

Posted by: Cheri Valentine

Posted: Friday, August 3, 2012 - 1:14am

Today I am happy to share a post from Betsy Karp www.iadoreme.com, a Life Stylist who helps you to live your inspired life. We all have mind chatter or as Betsy refers to them as Mind Voices. I love her suggestions to quiet them or even better, shift them.

MIND VOICES

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Feel Loved and More Connected Emotionally to Strength Your Relationships

Posted by: Cheri Valentine

Posted: Tuesday, August 7, 2012 - 8:56am

Each person has primary NEEDS and when they are met they feel LOVED and MORE connected emotionally. The converse is also true. When these basic needs are not met, we can feel unloved. Although there are 6 basic needs, each of us has a tendency towards 2 or 3, so this can be tricky when people come together in relationship with differing levels of comfort toward these basic needs.

Becoming aware of them is the first step, then you can gain an understanding of yourself and the choices you have made. You can then begin to communicate more openly and honestly with your partner so that you are each giving and receiving in ways that will connect you even more deeply.

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Awakening From The Slumber

Posted by: Cheri Valentine

Posted: Thursday, August 9, 2012 - 9:48am

As I am once again dealing with a new infection of lyme (added to my already chronic bout since 1996) I realize that spirit is calling to me to listen more fully to my deep inner truth, to awaken more vibrantly to my true passion and purpose, and to express it more authentically. Yes, love, connection and healthy relationships are my passion. I have felt stirrings to tap more fully into why it is my passion and desire to help women and men to heal their inner child, to clear their "junk" so their children will not have to. We pass so much onto our children and we are not aware of how much they absorb, see, internalize, and perceive from watching us. In my heart I know it is my purpose to help heal the past generations so our future...

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